The day it happened
It was a normal Tuesday, nearly two years ago, after my final session with a funny, self-deprecating, engaging and more-than-slightly silvered Managing Director of a technology firm. My reaction was so physical, it took me by surprise.
I put the phone down and fancied a coffee. Whilst walking from my office to the kitchen, I couldn’t help but notice the rising sensation of a whoppingly huge smile spreading like wildfire across my face. I felt an odd tingling in the deep depths of my stomach which rose to meet and bond with the giant smile before smearing the merged sensation across my entire body in a weird, never-before-experienced way.
The whole process culminated in…I kid you not…a whole body air-jump!
What exactly had occurred on that call?
Something marvellous. My client was delighted that he had been released from the fog of uncertainty about his future work, a fog that had been holding him back. And he told me so.
I was delighted that he was in a much better place than when we first met but that’s what I had promised. It should have been no surprise.
Job done. Job done well.
But, when I sat back to consider the impact of that weird whole-body air-jump, I felt both gutted and over-joyed simultaneously.
Hand on heart, I can tell you that I never once air-jumped with satisfied pleasure during my 20-year corporate job.
Not once! Maybe others have?
Two long decades of work hard, play hard but zero air-jumps.
I hadn’t realised during those 20 years that it was possible to do work that had this air-lifting impact.
Sure, on occasions, I’ve slightly self-consciously high-fived colleagues when I closed a big deal. But mostly, I recall releasing gargantuan sighs of…tired-eyed, shoulder-slumped relief from the energy it took to close the deal. Followed by another huge inhale to re-charge for the next goal.
Perhaps I could have been whole-body air-jumping for the last 20 years if I had chosen a different sort of work?
Gigantic whole-body smiling and uninhibited air-jumping appears to be my version of how it feels to be getting paid to do deeply satisfying work.
And I’m delighted that I popped that cherry in my mid-forties rather than my mid-sixties.
Better late than never.
Deeply satisfying work vs draining work (even if you’re great at it)
This somewhat silly but personally-memorable moment highlights the difference between doing work that is deeply satisfying and work that you may be good at but it might also be draining the life out of you.
When I sprinted away from my old career with no clear plan I just knew in my heart that some people in this world really love their work. I didn’t know any of them…then. But, I knew that I wanted to be one of them.
I knew that I could be one of them if I could just decipher their secret.
So, I tracked down individuals who professed to love their work. I specifically sought out individuals who had stayed in one career for a long time and then prioritised doing more satisfying work.
After 100 interviews with mid-life career changers, I now know their secrets.
Their secrets inspired me to design my business in a particular way.
The most important secret is that they have designed their work around their “Superpowers”.
Of course, they don’t use that term. “Superpowers” is a term I use to indicate the specific actions that are powered by your unique signature strengths.
- the activities that you love doing and could do with your eyes closed;
- the activities that you always gravitate towards;
- the activities that you cannot stop doing both at work and in life;
- and the activities that you would do for free if you didn’t need to pay the bills because the feel satisfying to your core.
You might notice that these Superpowers are actions not passive traits.
This is crucial.
When these 100 career changers use their Superpowers in their work, they feel deeply, deeply satisfied.
Instead of feeling drained to the point of exhaustion after a day of using their Superpowers they feel re-charged and re-booted. They could use these Superpowers for 8 hours a day and never feel drained.
Could you use your Superpowers all day every day?
Sadly, in the real world of business, very few have been able to make a living out of exclusively using their superpowers but the happiest career-changers use their superpowers multiple times a day. Occasionally they designed a whole day using their Superpowers - those days were utterly fantastic.
So, the fundamental secret to doing fulfilling, satisfying and happier work is using your Superpowers as often as possible each day.
When I use my own Superpowers it feels as though all of my pleasure sensors have fired up at once. It feels like nothing else in this world. As you now know, in my case, it brings around instinctive bodily reactions like gigantic, entire face-filling, shiny-eyed smiles and involuntary whole-body air-jumps.
Not quite orgasmic but something close.
Not a bad way to earn a living…eh?
If you are considering working with me to Discover your Superpowers - have a read of this article on the main concerns others have told me they have had before making a decision.
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